iT TAKES A MAN TO ACCEPT A WOMAN

A VERY KLOSE FRiEND OV MiNE iiNSPiRED ME TO WRiTE THiZ..BLOG..SO iMA HAVE TO DEDiCATE THiS ONE TO HiM...

HE ONCE TOLD ME THAT..." iT TAKES A WOMAN TO MAKE A BOY A MAN..iT TAKES A MAN TO ACCEPT A WOMAN"

ND ERRi TiME ii READ THAT ii HAVE TO SiT BAK ND READ iT OVA ND OVA..KUZ ii UNDASTAND WAT HEZ SAYiN..BUT AT THA SAME TiME iT PUZZLEZ ME..WEN HE SAYS iT TAKES A WOMAN TO MAKE A BOY A MAN...ii THiNK ABOUT THAT BOYS CHiLDHOOD..iM LiKE WEN ii KUM NTO A RELATiONSHiP ii XPECT A DUDE TO TREAT ME LiKE A WOMAN..ND ME TO TREAT HiM LiKE A MAN..i MEAN THATS WAT HE iZ RiTE?? iiDK...MAYBE iiM MiSSiN SUMTHiN..OR NOWA DAYS..THEY DNT MAKE EM LiKE THEY USE TO..USUALLY...A DUDE TEND TO TREAT A WOMAN LiKE THEY WULD WANT A NiGGA TO TREAT THEiR MOTHER..BUT ii KANT JUS BASE MY THOUGHTS OFF OV THAT KUZ...ii MEAN..SUM DNT HAVE MOTHAS ND NEVA DiiD..SO ii MEAN..GRANDMAZ EVEN..WRK...BUT TELL ME HOW KAN ii TELL A BOY TO BEKUM A MAN..HE'S HiZ OWN PERSON..iTZ AUTOMATiC WHEN YEW REACH A CERTAiN AGE..RiTE??? iiDK..iM KONFUSED FOR REAL..

THEN THERE'S MY BRO...BATTLE BUDDY..ADViCE GiVER..HE TOLD ME THAT " iF A WOMAN iS GONNA TREAT A MAN LiKE A BOY..THEN HE'S GONNA ACT LiKE A BOY..&& ViCE VERSA.." WHEN HE SAiD THAT i WAS LiKE TRU THAT..BUT JUS LiKE ANY REAL FEMALE..OR NiGGA OUT THERE...ii DNT THiNK ii WULD WANT TO B TREATD LiKE NOTHiN LESS THAN WAT ii AM..ND iMA WOMAN..ii WAS ONCE A CHiLD..A LiL GiRL...A YOUNG WOMAN...ND NOW iiMA GROWN ASS WOMAN..ND XPECT TO B TREATD LiKE THAT..ND NOT ACCEPTiN NOTHiN LESS..THAN DAT..ND ii KNO YEW FELLAS FEELiN ME..KUZ DUDES THESE DAYS HAVE THESE HUGE ASS EGOZ...ND THEY KWIK TO JUMP STUPiD...iF YEW PLAY WiT THEiR EGOZ.."AiNT NO BiTCH ON THiS END..".."BiTCH MADE NiGGAS" iS WAT ii KALL EM..ON SUM REAL SHiT..BUT FEMALES THESE DAYS ACT LiKE A MOTHER FiGURE..ND NOT WiFEY MATERiAL..TRiCKiN KASH..TO MAKE A NiGGA HAPPi...AiNT THA KEY TO THEiR HEART...i KNO THiS..JUS B REAL..KEEP iT 100..LET A NiGGA KNO WATS UP...ii HAVE ALOT OV MALE FRiENDS..ND THEY GON PLAY ON iT AS LONG AS THEY KAN..THEY GON DO WATEVA..TO GET WAT THEY KAN OUTTA YEW..WiT OUT HAViN TO WRK FOR iT...JUST LiKE A LiL BOY... "AWW HE'S JUS A LiL BOY HE KANT DO iT...iMA DO iT FOR HiM.." HELL NAW...HE A NiGGA..LET HiM GET THAT SHiT..DO THAT SHiT ON HiZ ON..BY ANY MEANZ..BUT HEY iDK...MAYB THATS THA NiGGAS i'VE BEEN AROUND..OR THEY JUS DNT MAKE EM LiKE THEY USE TOO..

MAN HELP A SiSTA OUT..ND HELP HA UNDASTANDD..A NiGGA THESE DAYS..

SUM WRDS ARE LEFT UNSPOKEN...
BUT iM THA ONE TO GET iNSPiRED..ND WRiTE..
iM JUS SAYN

if i were a boy..not a man

inspired by someone so dear to me..

i would not say how i feel..
i would let my niggas influence me..
i would do anything in my power not to show emotions..
i would b scared to say i love yew out loud..
i would not kare how my girl feels..
i would ignore her feelings..
i would be childish..
i would act like a big ass kid in public..( attention seeking) [ its a time nd place for things ]
i would only care about my money..nd my shoes..
i would flirt with otha females nd not think twice about it..
i would tell a female i love her..nd not really mean it..
i would lie nd say..i dnt talk to her..i dnt like her..i dnt want her..
stop being jealous babi..but the next day im gal'n her...
i would choose my boys before my girl..
i would do tha total opposite ov wat she asks ov me..
i would b considered to b just a boy..being a boy..
i would b immature...wen really im very mature..
i would take advice..negative nd positive from my boys..nd not kare or take into consideration
ov wat my girl had alreadi told me..b kause his boys wouldnt lie to him...nd his girl will..
i want my way..nd no other way..

if i were a boy..i would b just that a boy..not a man..

so boys..step it up a little nd do ur thang..but in a manly way...be able to admit to ur wrong doings..nd do wat u say ur gonna do..wit no regrets..nd no shame..

life is too short..for all tha games..nd time being wasted..take hold nd charge ov wat ur doin..nd do it..

im just puttin it into wrds..
wen sum onli think it..